When using a male masturbation device for the first time, there may be some psychological challenges and discomforts. Here are some psychological adjustment methods to help you better adapt to this process:
First, have a correct understanding of the masturbation device
Understand the normality of the masturbation device:
The masturbation device is an auxiliary tool used for sexual stimulation and sexual satisfaction. Its use is private, safe, and it is a healthy way of sexual release chosen by many people.
Correct wrong perceptions
Abandon the sense of shame or guilt regarding the use of masturbators. Masturbation is a common and normal sexual behavior, and using a masturbation device is also a reasonable choice.
Second, be mentally prepared
Set reasonable expectations:
Don't have overly high expectations for the first use, so as not to generate unnecessary pressure. Everyone's sexual experience and reaction are unique. What matters is to enjoy the process rather than the result.
Relax your mind
Before use, try relaxing activities such as deep breathing, meditation or taking a hot bath to relieve tension and anxiety.
Third, gradually try and adapt
Start with simplicity:
When using it for the first time, you can choose a masturbation device with simple functions and convenient operation, and try the low-intensity vibration or stimulation mode.
Gradually increase the stimulation:
As one becomes familiar with and adapted to the masturbation device, one can gradually try more complex vibration patterns or stronger stimulation intensities.
Fourth, pay attention to personal feelings and reactions
Pay attention to body signals:
During use, pay attention to your body's reactions and feelings. If any abnormal conditions such as pain, discomfort or allergy occur, stop using it immediately.
Adjust the usage method:
Adjust the usage method and stimulation intensity of the masturbation device according to personal feelings to ensure comfort and safety.
Fifth, seek support and assistance
Communicate with one's partner
If you wish, you can share your usage experience and feelings with your partner and seek their understanding and support.
Consult professionals:
If you encounter psychological problems or confusion during use, you can consult a professional psychologist or sexual health advisor to obtain more professional guidance and advice.
Sixth, cultivate a healthy mindset
Establish correct sexual concepts:
Recognizing that masturbation is a normal sexual behavior, there is no need to feel ashamed or guilty about it.
Maintain a positive attitude towards life:
In addition to sexual satisfaction, attention should also be paid to other aspects of life, such as work, study, social interaction and hobbies, in order to maintain overall physical and mental health.
Seventh, pay attention to personal hygiene and safety
Keep clean
Before and after use, it is essential to thoroughly clean and disinfect the masturbation device to prevent bacterial infections and other health issues.
Follow the instructions:
Read the user manual of the masturbation device carefully and follow the operation guidelines and safety tips therein.
